Being Dewy

Charger found! Time for a cocktail!

2011-07-17T19:32:00.000-07:00

It is 18th July 2011 today. I was really happy and relieved when i found the lost battery charger. I was quite disappointed because i couldn't export any pictures from the camera. And to make matters worse, i had been abandoning few things which includes this blog for the past two months.

Well, good news is today is hubby's birthday and i will be hosting a birthday celebration for him. Yep home-cooking for the big family. Hey even godfathers love cooking! hahah

Him with favourite niece, Sarah

a book in my office

Shift Happens..

2011-05-01T21:08:00.000-07:00

It is only natural that we tend to learn to adapt to new demands and environment. I am now a junior cook in the making! LOL how is that possible for a 35 year old who's supposed to be able to cook because one is married? haha.. I guess one has to realise that talents can come at a later age. But anyway, i have cooked several dishes now and had invited families and friends to savour on my humble recipes. I never knew that cooking is a fun thing to do! That doesn't mean that i am shifting my focus from other worldly ambitions though. It is more of taking breath of fresh air, in between the oohs and aahs of that climb, do not forget to take time to learn new things and one will be surprised of ones ability and talents if nurtured properly. That i believe in that saying - Learning is a lifelong process.

Aside from cooking, i am also learning to let go of certain things in the past that has been haunting my life ever since i am 19! The realization and enlightenment of such process came in light of new discoveries and upon finally understanding the fact that we are all gifted to be granted that one gem - The Art of Gratitude. Being grateful is the key! .. and to that i say Alhamdulillah.

That hunger ..

2011-04-01T19:42:00.000-07:00

It is not surprising that March has rather been a hectic month. Work and play intertwined but business and pleasure doesn't belong on the same department for me. I have also learned that vanity can be costly at times. I also need to travel and take some time off again just to get away from the demanding and boring routine. I want new opportunities and challenges.

Call me funny but i do enjoy attending written test sometimes, because it provides me some kind of challenge and the fact that i get to be called for interviews tells me that i had excelled in most of the written test that i have attended. But perhaps i screwed the interview! haha You can't be too smart when answering some conservative senior officials. The system requires you to just be precise. Simple as that. And ..well, Vanity is not good. That i must remember hehe.. Ah well, on the meantime..

Between Balinese massage and Singapore's Mee Rebus

2011-02-09T22:04:00.000-08:00

Feeling relaxed and pampered, I think Bali is one destination that i really like when compared to Singapore and Kuala Lumpur. The people are nice, with good food, mystical aura, awesome scenery and affordable accommodation for those on budget, it is no wonder that this place being hailed as one of a world tourist destination.

I got my hair braided at Kuta while Number 12 got tattooed hehe..

Happy New Year 2011

2011-01-02T05:18:00.000-08:00

The New Year 2011 is here and Alhamdulillah we are still here.

Today is 2nd January 2011..

and tommorow i will be off to Bali ..

When i say i do..

2010-12-19T04:51:00.000-08:00

My 1st December Birthday this year was celebrated ala grande, and i owe it all to my other half for organising such an auspicious event. I could never find anyone better than you, Number 12

There were celebrated in two occasions. The special guests on the first birthday party comprised of 'hot' peoples in the 30's (my beloved close friends) while the second event was with mum, dad and my siblings.

I really value their presence on both parties which my husband has hosted and i love the presents too.

Thank you very much..

Sweet November

2010-11-12T23:54:00.000-08:00

1st November and 6th November was both Dad's and Mom's Birthday. The family gathered at parents' residence as usual but i had to make it early due to work obligation. Turned up at 7pm, i only spend an hour and i was the earliest to come to hand over my presents to the 2 people that brought me into this world.

Bewitching Curve and Black Cherry ordered unique birthday cakes for them. Too bad i wasn't there to share my part..

These photos are courtesy of Black Cherry

Hari Raya 'Hari Mulia'

2010-10-03T06:16:00.000-07:00

It is not too late to wish everyone a happy hari raya. As usual hari raya is a day to celebrate after Ramadhan. However my raya this year was not as expected because i had to celebrate Raya Eve without my other half. He had to fly to Mokpo, Korea a few days before Hari Raya.

Aside from the usual festive cakes, fizzy drinks and 'open houses' invitation, i can say that i was lacking interest in celebrating the glorious day. After going to parents' home on the first day, it took me 3 weeks after 1 Syawal to finally enjoy Raya visits when my Number 12 finally returned from abroad.

Infact first week after Raya, i opted to go for a getaway in our home soil and make myself busy with the activities the resort is offering.

But it was a sad view from the balcony..

It's that time of the year

2010-08-18T06:16:00.000-07:00

Ramadhan 1431 is here and today is the 6th day of the fasting month. Alhamdulillah I am still here to fast and feeling relieved as i was actually looking forward for this holy month. The excitement for the coming of Ramadhan had been in my mind two weeks before it starts.

The month has this special scent in the air. That feeling of togetherness in devoting our obligations to the All Mighty and it further strengthen family ties - a time to be together for each other. As we are also encouraged to give to the needy and the poor, the month is a time to reflect on self where religious discipline reminds us that we are who we are and it serves the purpose of living in this world.

To me, it is also a time to remember our dearly departed and our role as the generation that appreciates life and what it has to offer.

From me to you - Ramadhan Kareem

Think tank the tanks

2010-07-20T19:59:00.000-07:00

This photo of was taken by yours truly on my visit to Yosemite National Park in California, January this year.

June is mellowing down on me as i was beginning to adapt to my second job. At first it created a lot of think tank , to collectively bring myself on the reality - how to squeeze the ever-hectic schedule?

Some call it madness but i think it was more to being able to survive the challenges. I had to change my Tasek routine from morning to the afternoon. Which means that i need to rush from work and change by 4.45pm in order to complete the routine by 6pm. I have an hour rest for dinner before having to rush to Gadong for second job.

Usually ends at 2am i have about five hours sleep before waking up to a morning job.

I am beginning to adapt to this schedule each day towards July where the epitome of buzziness (to others) reached its limit - in which i was able to avoid! Hah!

I was being frank on not allowing myself to get involve with that yearly project. To be able to tell someone right on his/her face that you don't want to jump into some kind of yearly project that won't be of any benefit to you.

Call me an opportunist but..

Thanks to being bold and being Dewy....

All Smiles when Lea's Shackled

2010-06-05T23:02:00.000-07:00

Last night was a family affair when Dahlia is now, engaged. The Family of Haji Mazidi visited Mulaut Family to discuss future prospects between the two families.. *ehem*

Haji Japar made a superb job presenting on behalf of the family and so as Hj Bakir on behalf of the visitor. I actually love witnessing their dialogue especially when Haji Japar uses interesting terms like 'Bunga', 'garan' really shows his wittiness and wisdom as an 'orang tua-tua' .. full of symbolic and metaphoric meaning, which made me and others smile throughout the event.

Cracked jokes and warmth promises closer prospects umm.. probably this December. Right Dahlia? hehe

Membuka Mulut

All smiles Enjoying the wittiness of both 'wakil'

and when they cracked jokes..

Dahlia, all smiles

Forward..

2010-06-02T06:45:00.000-07:00

I have been attending few tests nowadays because i feel that the time is ripe to move forward and grab the opportunities where ever it lies. Opportunities are everywhere.

A few days ago, a friend of mine questioned my motive for attending those test, as if i am not 'bersyukur' and greedy. But then again his opinions are his to keep and i am not affected at all by his words.

Alhamdulillah, because i am forever grateful for what God has given me. Infact, correct me if i am wrong but religion also told us that learning is a lifelong process and improving our way of life is much encouraged.

I think it is up to oneself to make these important decision, and all i'm doing is nonetheless for my future, my family and the people close to me.

Perspective on Prospects

2010-04-26T19:36:00.000-07:00

This photo, i took while i was in San Francisco in front of The Pink Lady (the pink house). The bus stopped just infront the house and i love these tulips.

I can say that i am a bit happy with the current situation I am in. I have lost some weight but i believe i need to lose a bit more. Working is one of my favorite routine (although tiring at times) but because by doing so, i am able to maintain (if not ease) some financial obligations and save more for more travel plans. After Los Angeles, i am beginning to love the idea of traveling to places i've never been before. To live life to the fullest with my loved ones before i can venture into more important life cycle. Life cycle? ...

Syahmi turns 5!

2010-03-29T21:57:00.000-07:00

I need much catching up to do to 'revive' this near dead blog hehe.

But how could i not include my favourite nephews' 5th Birthday Celebration. Yes, its Syahmi - my cute cuddly nephew that i dearly love.

He's bright a kid, full of surprises and laughs a lot. I like a kid who laughs a lot cause they cheer me up. So what happen is that, his Mum and Dad invite us over our parent's residence to grace his 5th Birthday occasion.

All members of immediate family was present but i couldn't shoot all their photos, camera's acting up.

The kid of the hour with his lovely sister, Sarah

then its Food Fest, as usual but the now slimmer bestfriend decides to eat less.. so sayang hehe

bestfriend, Izyan and mom

I was searching for photos of Syahmi's Mom and Dad but realize that i have used up camera's memory. Well, congratulations anyway to Susy and Sofian for raising this cute kid.

The Tough Get Going..

2010-03-28T17:32:00.000-07:00

March is about to end and i've realized that the blog is growing cobweb again. Been much preoccupied with small matters that needs attention.

However, i will be updating Being Dewy today which will feature some activities on Dzikir Maulud at parent's residence, Syahmi's Birthday party and on my sudden decision to leave my other job.

Dzikir Maulud at parents residence was held on 26th February 2010. My mom wishes to organize in moderation because as one of the members of Muslimah Mulaut, its her turn to invite other members for Dzikir Maulud which also happens to fall on Maulud Nabi day itself.

Mom and her team

Outside, Kenduri makan

The tenant made her appearance

This couple to marry this year

Power of Expression

2010-02-17T17:13:00.000-08:00

People are accustomed to being nice to others although treatment from the other party is not mutual. But how do we know if we have done the right thing in everything? Is being nice a key to every step we take? Because sometimes we need to speak out rather than concealing the truth although speaking out may also lead to misunderstanding and harshness.

It has come to my understanding that some people don't like to speak out as end results depends on the person you are trying to rely the information to. These people may not take your views positively. Whilst some prefer to keep quiet, i opt to speak out and be honest (if i may describe it that way).

Being honest too has its consequences. A lot actually. But to me, being honest is a key to trust and respect, among other qualities one should reckon with.

These are end results of that power of expression...

Izyan's Birthday Bash

2010-02-09T16:31:00.000-08:00

She celebrated her birthday on Sunday 8th February 2010 in one restaurant located in Jerudong. As the event started at 5pm, i came half an hour late due to some unforseen circumstances.

Photo shows birthday girl mingles away happily.

Hubby could not make it that afternoon, so it was only me and Bijul. I bought Izyan a Gucci Bag and a pair of elegant slippers for the Cinderella of the day.

Warm ambience and tasty Thai food. A good day for the whole family.

Capturing the moment - Adek and Dad's delightful faces on seeing the cake

January Blues

2010-01-28T22:42:00.000-08:00

I've never had the chance to say "Happy New Year 2010" to many people. I know this is late, 29th January 2010 already hehe.. way to go with blogging huh..

A lot of people had been hardly hit by new regulations concerning Credit Card in the country. I symphatise with this whole situation. I felt lucky that i am not affected by this bold move as i have resort to closing down all my 3 credit cards a year before the new regulation was introduced. Nevertheless, i am affected with the woes and hardship that some friends/ colleagues/ families had voiced out to me and i can only lend an open ear - i wish i could help ease their pain.

I have learn to live without credit card since a year ago and believe me, it needs great discipline to do so. One of my close family was even surprised that i had spend my time in Los Angeles and San Francisco without even bringing a single CC along. It was all cash... Alhamdulillah

Hence one of my new year resolution is to help my self and help friends/families in any way i could. May Allah gives me the strength to do so. Amin~~

Well there goes my January post. Till next time...

My New Moon

2009-12-04T19:20:00.000-08:00

It is that time of the year again and its my new moon.

Last year, the moon smiled down on my special night - smiling moon of 1st December 2008 on my birthday and can be seen across this region. This year my birthday celebration was a bit different because instead of dinner at my parents, i opted to escape to Mangrove Resort but it was such a mad rush. Imagine going off to another office at 5 and finishes at 7 just to rush off to cash a personal check at one bank outlets in Beribi. The long queue got me really pissed. By the time i was at the counter, it was already 7.50pm and i hadn't change yet.

Arriving at Mangrove at 8.20pm, my mood changed and there was smile written all over my face. Seeing members of family gathered around for birthday dinner was an overwhelming sensation. Thank you for family and friends for the birthday gifts..

Everybody was busy trying to catch Twilight's New Moon on local cinema but i was watching My New Moon passing just before my very eyes. Alhamdulillah

Siblings and family members

Nadia and her special one

My Other half, My Dad and My favourite nephew

some of the presents *Thank you All and I love you guys*

Mom and Dad Birthday Celebration 2009

2009-11-08T19:28:00.000-08:00

November is the month for my mom and dad. Dad was born on 1st November and Mom on 6th November. My siblings cooked up a plan for a surprise birthday celebration at the family's favourite dinner spot, OGH.

The funny part was when Nadyea brought out their cakes. Dad was presented with a Liverpool Cake when infact he is a Manchester United Fan! Seems that everyone got confused with that information haha But i figured both Mom and Dad loves the whole idea of family members gathering together that night.

I think mom and dad will continue to live prosperous and happy in their golden age for many years to come.

Mom help dad blew his birthday candle

My other half with Adek (my niece) on his lap

Family photo for all

Gearing for January..

2009-11-03T17:10:00.000-08:00

I have one major plan for January 2010. I'm not telling yet, but if the plan goes well then i am going to need to slim down in order to enjoy and reap benefits from every bit and second January could offer.

I mean.. really.. you can't walk with a bulging tummy and those excess fats. Well you can.. but not that far a distance and not that that worth a dime you invested.

Well i can't really say much at this time cause its only been 3 days since i started this campaign hehe.. else im gonna end up putting my feet on my mouth... hehe..

... but i will try to persevere..

Syawal 2009 - Warmth and Happiness

2009-09-29T06:12:00.000-07:00

First Syawal falls on Monday as the moon was not sighted. What a relief as we haven't prepared anything, unlike last year where Eid was more cheerful and merrier.

However, our first Syawal was just like what i imagined it would be.

First Syawal is happiness and warmth with My husband and my family. As usual, we gathered at my parents house that morning. Mom prepared her recipe - the family's favourite and much awaited 'Sup Tulang', Ayam masak Kurma and Ketupat (mom made them on Raya eve). I like the idea that they were made and not bought .. I enjoyed the spread. My other half and Bjul loved them as well..

I love the scent of first raya, you can smell it in the air.. the warmth and happiness surrounding us. To be able to celebrate it with mom and dad, my blueberry pie, and my whole family is enough to make me feel complete.

After asking for forgiveness from our parents, there were photo sessions in which picture quality was no different from last year hehe..

My Raya Eve was a mad rush to beat work and time to be with my family. Every year, i never fail to supply bedil and mini fireworks to entertain the family.. anything to see those smile on their faces.. This year i brought along Wafi, Danial, Zaza and Ezahh to join our Raya Eve.

sorry but just bear with this poor photo quality ok.. hehe

Amongst the Raya text messages i've received, i saw one from a good friend that i want to share with readers of my humble blog. Sincerely from me Being Dewy :

"For things i did wrong.. For words which might hurt... For jokes U couldn't take.. For advices U couldn't accept... For attitudes U couldn't compromise.. I sincerely plead for forgiveness... Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri 1430H Maaf Zahir & Batin"

Gone Too Soon - Al Fatihah

2009-09-15T05:36:00.000-07:00

My sister in law died on 10th September. She died peacefully on Friday night, last 10 days of Ramadhan at a time where religious obligations intensified in search of Lailatul Qadr'.

The late Nuramalina Abdullah was dearly loved and respected by a lot of people, including me. I admired her strength and determination in bringing the best out of her 4 children. Raising kids is an art and a very challenging one. For a housewife to single-handedly master this task, i really look up to her patience and wisdom in doing so. I saw her perseverance reaped benefits.

A real woman like her.. is what it takes...

She left us because god loves her more, and she will always be in our thoughts and prayer...

Gone too soon.. AL-Fatihah

Ramadhan Kareem

2009-08-31T07:05:00.000-07:00

Ramadhan Kareem - Ramadhan Mubarak!

Ninth day of Ramadhan but its not too late to greet you, readers of my humble blog. Ramadhan for me this year is a bit different but family matters remain my utmost important subject.

I am quite worried for my sister in law's health condition. Since she has been admitted to the hospital and recently to Intensive Care Unit, i couldn't help but think if there was some way for me to help her. Apart from prayers and wishing for her to get better, i also hope she would get the best medicine from finest of doctors in this time of need.

Like Always, Ramadhan offers me time to be closer with the whole family. My favourite month it is, i would rush to my mom's place on certain days just to break our sungkai together. Then we would make plans on a chosen day to ensure all family members are availabe to visit our late grandfathers and grandmother's cemetary'

I had to adjust work time intervals between my two jobs this month and must deal with some investment issues that need attention.

Aside from that, i am gearing for January 2010. The date is set and I am going full force with my last step which will be finalise InsyaAllah before Hari Raya. What is it?

You have yet to find out...

Ramadhan Mubarak to you

Susy and Sarah Birthday Bash

2009-08-23T20:39:00.000-07:00

eJust a day before Ramadhan, the family celebrated Susy's birthday.

Susy, my sister is an education officer. She's blessed to have a perfect life, happy family with 2 kids - a boy and a girl. Syahmi and Sarah are the apple of our eyes. Our usual get together is much awaited for her birthday.

2 birthday cakes?

Since it was held before Puasa, there were karaoke session between the attendees.

I was like only a while ago that Susy's baby girl, Sarah Syaziyah celebrated her birthday. Adek was astonished to see her big cake ..

My Blueberry Pie

2009-08-09T06:40:00.000-07:00

Its that time of the year again. My Bluebery Pie's birthday has always been a family affair. Simple with just close family members and close friends in attendance.

He told me that he didn't want his birthday to be a big fuss but how can i not? .. So at the last minute, my siblings and family worked out a simple birthday gathering with home-cooked meal and tasty BBQ at my parents residence. I knew from the look of his face that he's happy to have both sons by his side on the night of his birthday. I am glad that my Blueberry Pie is happy.

I invited a close friend of mine, Elle to the occasion. Special thanks to Elle for courtesy of superb photos. Looks like 've got our own 'rudolf portillo' in the making here ..

Tasty BBQ was presented by Nadyea and her hunny Amar

and of course traditional favourite of Pais, Satay, Nasi Beriani, Ayam Masak Merah, Daging Rendang among others hehe.. food fest yes..

Lea's Birthday

2009-07-12T07:52:00.000-07:00

Lea, my sister is now 26 years old.

As usual, family gathering for such birthday occasion has always been on a list of the my priorities.(my boss always say that we are no godfathers but we always want the best for our family!)

Lea, ( sister no 6) helped me a lot . She loves shopping and the trendiest clothes of the latest designs so i was rather nervous if she would approved of what i got for her present.

A pair of lovely stiletto for an Enchanted Cinderella.

I knew she would look good on them, but then again she is pretty and kind too :)

All of us came to rejoice her 26th birthday plus certain family to-be extension.. Hey Lea, we like your Majedee!!

We invited an Imam to read special prayers... and he loves the food too!

and as you can see.. somebody tried to help with BBQ but then ended up burning all the chickens to crispy black, even in flavour.. but it still taste good though haha

Mikael left this world - AlFatihah

2009-06-30T05:43:00.000-07:00

Amidst our ever busy life, the world is triggered by the news - Michael Jackson is gone. Michael Jackson is dead.

There goes another piece of my childhood memories.

I grew up with his music. I was eight years old when hit songs such as 'Beat It','Thriller' and 'Billie Jean' introduces me to the passion that music can offer. Back in the 80's, The Jacko Craze had a big impact on Brunei. Before CD or VCD was here, Bruneians would consider it cool to play his cassette and it was almost every child's dream to get his red jacket on 'Thriller' video's, nagging their parents to buy for them. The red jacket became a fashion hit, even in Brunei. I vividly remember a guy who always walks around Bandar with his jacket in the 1980's.

I was one of those children who would play the Beat It song over and over again during those years. I remembered how my school mates would try their best to do the moonwalk although no one was really able to imitate his moves perfectly.

It was 1996 when he came to Brunei and perform a big concert at the then-glamorous Jerudong Park Playground. I never had a chance to meet him in person but my late grandfather was lucky to shake hand with this legend a day after the concert.Thanks to Awang Yunus.

A humanitarian and a music legend, Michael is a martyr for he has done a lot to the people and music but he gets accusations, bad publicity and forced to create his own little world just to be normal. That's what i think. However, news of his conversion seem to be a plight in a bid to find peace and tranquility he had yearn so much of. He finally found peace.

A lot had been said about his religious beliefs but as Jermaine Jackson had stated in a press statement to the media following the death of his brother- "and may Allah be with you Michael, always" and so it has been confirmed that he died as a Muslim.

There goes another childhood memories and indeed May Allah bless him.

Walkabout - Let's....

2009-05-05T18:22:00.000-07:00

I would like to apologize to Izyan Naqibah for the delay. However, here are some memoirs which i manage to grab from Bukit Tinggi, Pahang last year.

Number 12 underwent an intensive 3 weeks training programme so i flew at the last minute to meet him. We decided to take a few days to relax, enjoying the cool temperatures of the exotic hill - at The Colmar Tropicale.

A view from our room window...

Kids feeding swans

It was raining that night... most people stayed indoors

Dinner and breakfast was marvellous. ... Good Morning Chateau!

After breakfast, climb the tower to witness a view from the top of french village

.. Number 12 was eager to visit the Japanese Village.

Just 2 km from Colmar, the buggy transports us to the Botanical Garden and Japanese Village..

Coming up - Botanical Garden and Japanese Village

That Rule of Thumb

2009-04-18T00:19:00.000-07:00

I've realized this blog is growing cobweb hehe.. but what can i say, i have been pretty busy lately.

The hectic days are never ending. Infact, i also find it hard to get a proper 'holiday'.. if you know what i mean.. ... But no matter how much hectic things can be i have this rule of thumb adhered by members of my household.

"A Family That Eats Together, Stays Together" - yes this rule of thumb i do consider quite important since everyone is all busy working their * off haha

But anyways, this is what my parents taught me since i was just a child. Since family is of great importance to me, the dinner table is a place for all of us to at least sit together and share that moment in a day.

I guess we all need to do that. Don't we?

25 years of glory - 'Kedewasaan Bernegara'

2009-02-23T02:55:00.000-08:00

Its 23th February in Brunei. The silver jubilee - 25th National Day Celebration. I can say i am among the thousands of proud bruneians who attends the event at the Stadium this morning.

Before this, attendance on such celebration was never my interest. However,this year is different mainly because of few reasons. I think the celebration reminds me of my childhood in a way.

Back in 1985 (2nd national day), i remembered taking part in the flip cards presentation together with the rest of my schoolmates. I was only 9 at that time and with the excruciating heat of the sun during the rehearsals, it was quite a task. But it was an experience.

In 1986, at 10, i joined the march past with the rest of members of the Girl Guides Association.

Now after 25 years, i thought that who knows if i will still be here to witness the Golden Jubilee in the future. So perhaps this may be one of those chances you don't want to miss.

Another reason for that 'sudden interest' (believe me some of my friends did made fun of me about being patriotic all of the sudden hehe) was that i wanted to be there for my dad and my two sisters who were taking part in the march past.

My Dad marched past the celebration with members of the 'Kejiranan Kampong' (Neighborhood watch). He was kinda looking forward to it, judging from his look of excitement everytime he left for the rehearsals - he always came over before proceeding to the stadium. I guess retirement perhaps bored him a bit. In 1984 (Day of Independence), my dad was a government school principal before he transferred to the ministry until his retirement in 2004.

Susi, my sister too took part in the march past with the Red Crescent Society. She was leading her students from Sekolah Menengah Jerudong who were Red Crescent members. During the Independence day, she was only 4 years old.

My other sister, Dahlia and her colleagues joined the ministry of defence on the march past and field presentations. In 1984, she wasn't born yet.

Since my mother and my other two sister and hubs were equally interested to attend, then why not jump on the wagon and enjoy the ride..

I was calculating at first, because i do not want to wake up very early just to beat the congestion while all roads to the stadium closes as early as 7 am. But then hubs announced that a day before, he was given a parking pass allocated in front of the swimming pool complex, just outside the stadium so we don't need to leave too early. And so mom, my 3 younger sisters, me and hubs had a fun time.

Meanwhile, hubs shoot some photos and it was a so and so attempt hehe...

p/s what amazes me the most was the 1984 veteran singer .. Cikgu Haji Husin bin Tuah who sang the national day theme song this year. The announcer said since it was Silver Jubilee so the theme song will be sung by 2 singers - the major who sang the 'Brunei Bumi Bertuah' in 1984 and the young singer from this generation. However, i find the legendary old school in his 60's sounds better than his subordinate ... amazing huh.

Yes We-Can

2009-02-15T04:59:00.000-08:00

I was a bit sad that i couldn't attend Siraj's birthday party but i managed to see him after the party. He looks happy to see me and i gave him a big birthday present, better than the one he told me he had wished for earlier hehe..

Meanwhile, my sister had decided to celebrate her birthday on the same night. Believe me, i only have 15 minutes to change and then off to Gadong ..

I had my ups and downs, but family gatherings usually brightens up my day..

Happy Birthday NurIzyan Naqibah

January Specials - Mom and Dad 34th Wedding Anniversary

2009-01-14T04:45:00.000-08:00

Wow... so it has been 34 years of successful marriage for my mom and dad. Again, this calls for a celebration. Lea seems to be determine this time as she reminded me again and again not to miss it.

I was sick but the gathering got me all excited. So was Siraaj and Syahmi who helped blew the candle..

...and so the night continues with food fest.

that was when an intruder came to visit.

Happy New Year Hijrah 1430 Hijrah and 2009M

2009-01-01T07:09:00.000-08:00

I'm on holiday until mid January. Unlike previous years, this time i opted to stay at home and having peaceful quality time - celebrating my upcoming long holiday from work.

I love the idea of waking up late and spoiling myself with spontaneous plans and activities. Me and hubs have 1 destination in mind for the holidays but we'll see what happens...

Today, we went to my parents and i stayed outside -waiting for the sunset. I missed it. Wandering around, i began to realize the amount of energy and commitment of both my parents after their retirement. They grew coconuts, rambutans, mangosteen etc.. even long before i could remember. Too bad i didn't have time to shoot them all.

When i realized it, i even respected them more for their capabilities in bringing things to life. Yes i grew flowers - roses, orchids etc but my maid took care of them for me.

It made me think. Am i taking things for granted?

Perhaps, .......... I am.

1st December - The birthday

2008-12-03T05:06:00.000-08:00

I woke up feeling old (like last year and a year before that) but i smiled my way through the rest of the day. Its one of my happiest day infact. Although my day was tight, i felt really happy knowing im dearly loved by family and friends.

I love all those presents from my sisters/colleague - Rina, Nyza, Fea and Sweet Suzz. Love u guys!

...And also a big beautiful flower bouquet delivery from my bestfriend Elle. Im touched. Love ya. The next morning i put them in 2 separate vases in my living room.

... and also not forgetting gifts from other half, what would i do without you..

That night me, hubs, Bijul, Siraj and our maid went back to my parents for a small birthday party set up by my siblings.

On my way i saw the moon smiling down on me...

I thought it only happens on fairy tales that the moon and stars smiles back at you but Alhamdulillah i was able to witness the amazing phenomenon.(the next day i came to learn that Jupiter and Venus's amazing alignment. Prediction said that next occurence of the same will be in 2036)

When i finally arrived at my parents, i was surprised to see my family prepared delicious spread with the likes of Barberque Chicken, Pais Daging, Smoked Salmon and other mom favourite delicacies. Thanks for the beautiful cake, i love it.

That day made me a happy woman... Alhamdulillah

what about the talent..

2008-11-25T04:20:00.000-08:00

"It's important not to indicate. People don't try to show their feelings, they try to hide them"

"The talent is in the choice"

"There is a certain combination of anarchy and discipline in the way I work "

"There's nothing more iconic or contradictory than life itself "

"You learned the two greatest thing in life, never rat on your friends,and always keep your mouth shut "

- Travis Bickle
Some of us learn about life 'the hard way'. I was one of those people. Then everything finally falls to place Alhamdulillah.... but i am still learning though

Just for treats

2008-11-11T06:13:00.000-08:00

Coming up...

The Bukit Tinggi Excursion

Sweet November

2008-11-07T02:39:00.000-08:00

mom's cake

..because both my parents celebrated their birthday in November so its a double celebration.Dad on 1st November and Mom on the 6th. The usual family gathering was inevitable and i sort of need that right now amidst the ever tight work schedule i'm in. I love my parents, i can see them enjoying themselves seeing we're all there. After dinner, there were karaoke session. Everyone was forced to sing and me included. Like i always say "suara betagar udah" but then ..what the heck... Anything for my mom and Dad haha

Dad's cake

Some raya photos

2008-10-15T05:41:00.000-07:00

My sisters gave me some photos that they took during Hari Raya. Note : i'm not in any of the photos below hehe

At my parents house. I had to satisfy my crave for mom's sup tulang so sorry, im nowhere in the photo.

My sisters at my house in Bandar. Simple menu of Mee mamak, satay and ketupat.But the guests liked it.

Nadya...

This one we took a day earlier, family from Tutong.

Happy Hari Raya Kullu' Am Wa Antum Bikhair...

2008-10-04T10:17:00.000-07:00

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri.Kullu' Am wa Antum BiKhair...

The day of joy has arrived. I was busy and had limited time to update, let alone to get my hands on the laptop. Our malam raya was always how i wanted it to be. The whole family gathered just to be with each other together on the night of aidilfitri.

As promised, i bought with me a box containing loads of firecrackers and bunga api to lit the sky where my parents live. Siraaj and Syahmi were really enjoying themselves like were no tommorrow.. Meanwhile Adik, the curious one just stood there in awe adoring the beauty of the fireworks as well as the togetherness of our big family. Bijul on the other hand, did a superb job of entertaining everyone with his neverending series of beautiful fireworks. My siblings practically screamed with joy, i can't believe these adults!! haha

The next morning, we arrived a bit late. My mom prepared my all time favourite, the Sup Tulang special, daging masak rendang, ayam masak merah, udang rebus among others. I really did ate before i ask forgiveness salam from both my mom and dad and my husband too.
I felt good that morning and lucky for i have a chance to celebrate pagi raya with my parents and the whole family. You know,some people might not get that chance on that day so again, i am thankful of His blessings. Alhamdulillah.

Remembering the departed

2008-09-27T06:25:00.000-07:00

Family traditions on Ramadhan continues...

Last year this important family legacy was posted as a remembrance

This customary practise continued this year. Al Fatihah, Yaasin, Surah An-naas, Al-Falak and Al-Ikhlas to our those who are gone. It is our responsibility to repay our late ancestors by uttering prayer to Allah. Not just on Ramadhan but perhaps every day if possible.

My late grandfather took care of me and my family until i'm 24. I have always loved his wisdom, strength and patience. Al Fatihah..

What i had for Sungkai

2008-09-19T06:11:00.000-07:00

Its one of those days where you crave for fish curry. So i called KJ restaurant and ordered for a Kari Kepala Ikan for Sungkai.

and since my close friend Elle decided to drop by for Sungkai, why not prepare Sambal Mangga pedas.. hehe

..but then again nothing beats my mom homecook recipe and this sunday,as agreed we will balik kampung and mom will be preparing her speacialties YIPE!!!

Time to upload some photos

2008-09-10T09:49:00.000-07:00

Earlier this year....

... and so i have the time to upload some of the photos i took during my trip to Ulu-Ulu Resort in Temburong.

All photos are taken by an amateur.... yours truly.

Memoirs of First Ramadhan 1429

2008-09-03T00:52:00.000-07:00

Puasa has begun and the month of Ramadhan brings families closer. This is the time when i will usually get together 'balik kampong' to break fast with my mom, dad and my other siblings. Since yesterday is a public holiday, everyone was at ease so we went off around 4pm. Living away from parent is a lot different. That is why even as busy as everyone in the family gets, spending time together especially in this holy month, for me is very important.

First ramadhan is quality time with my big family. On our way, we stop at the roadside of Bengkurong/Junjongan junction. Coz i know mum like Lauk Salai so i simply must get her this favourite delicacy. This year i will be missing my favorite air kausar as the old woman where i use to bought it from died tragically few months ago. Al Fatihah to her. I will forever remember her as the old woman who make the best air kausar!

And so we all gathered around 6 at my parents house. Dad cook my favorite 'gulai campur'. My sister bought 'Pais Daging' and i was a glutton! Hubby was laughing at me for being such hehe Everyone was in a jolly mood, even after sungkai.

Discussion were made on when to visit the kubur, trying to fix appropriate date to fit on everyone's calendar. Belait first then Kilanas and Mulaut.

Yea, just how i want it to be, like last year.

Blessing in disguise..

2008-08-18T00:24:00.000-07:00

Finally i was able to sit back and relax for a few days. If it wasn't for my urge to get to my blueberry pie, i wouldn't be taking these holidays. But considering the hectic weeks are turning back to normal and now that life as it is... is boring me down so perhaps i should sit back and watch.

Majlis Ilmu 2008 was not very popular this year. Despite media attention, i think that the inaugural ceremony last year was more pleasing and awaited by the public. However, in a more positive note and being involved in 2 major projects of the event, im beginning to believe that the opportunities are being laid down and i should be able to differentiate whether one are a being treated unjustly, or taken advantage of or maybe ..just maybe... being assessed. My superiors instructed me to deal with the translations on the important exhibition. The researchers of these valuable documents were my brilliant colleagues. Since the exhibits mainly features documents and artifacts, it was far beyond my knowledge that my works will be exhibited in such honorable manner. Thank you Allah for this opportunity...

July the 18th

2008-07-19T22:50:00.001-07:00

My Blueberry pie's birthday. We just popped up a surprise for him. Mom was there and so was all my sisters, my nephew, niece as well as my long time friend and his family.

Just a birthday cake but we have a free treat 'gratis' of fireworks since we're living n the capital. And its His Majesty's The Sultans Birthday, so there were beautiful firewors presented by the sponsors of the auspicious celebration.

Its fun to celebrate your birthday and enjoying the fireworks in the background. What a pleasant suprise for my blueberry pie :)

... and thanks sis for the pics..

'The Holiday' on a Friday afternoon

2008-07-04T05:29:00.000-07:00

Spend some time relaxing today. Both me and hubs started with a window shopping for cars. Apparently, he plan to buy another car. Later we decided to spend some time to watch a film at home together, one thing that we hadn't done for quite a while as we are both busy juggling our workloads.

We watched 2006's 'The Holiday' and i know we're 2 years behind. Nevertheless, the film is romantic and some scene touches my heart. Reminds me of how i fell in love with my other half hehe...

Approaching July and...

2008-06-30T05:58:00.000-07:00

...as usual my July turn to be more hectic and busy.. why? because i got so many datelines. My involvement in The Convention of Knowledge (Majlis Ilmu 2008) and not to mention covering some activities on His Majesty's The Sultans Birthday Celebration is essential.

I love both of my jobs. I learn new things and experience. I don't know arabic except for jawi and some stuffs i learn from the ugama school when i was a kid. While my colleagues are Syariah/Usuluddin graduates, i was worthy of history and anthropology which i learned in UBD and i forgot most of them haha... My colleagues are young, energetic and brilliant youngsters and i love them. I love their energy, their ambitions and committment. These people are fast thinker with good decision making skills. I learn a lot from them, especially if i require arabic translations.

My other job is equally challenging. I need to be in focus all the time and i carry great responsibility 'to' and 'for' the people. Their opinions are of great value to my job. I am lucky to be assisted by a good friend of mine, A most of the time.

.... and i am blessed to have a supportive hub whom i love dearly, 2 great kids to cheer up my day, my lovely niece and nephew, my lovable sister and ... both my parents who made me as who i am today.

Which reminds me to upload this photo which i took in the clear waters of Sungai Apan, Temburong. The water is so clear with beautiful fishes swimming their way to happiness. Life is simple, don't make it complicated.

Ar-Rumi's Words of Wisdom

2008-06-27T21:03:00.000-07:00

Ever came across a masterpiece called 'The Rubaiyat' by Jalalluddin Ar'Rumi?

Such strong words from The Rubaiyat expressed his calm and sure state of mind. I find his words of wisdom simply incredible:

“I died as a mineral and became a plant,
I died as plant and rose to animal,
I died as animal and I was Man.
Why should I fear? When was I less by dying?
Yet once more I shall die as Man, to soar
With angels blest; but even from angelhood
I must pass on: all except God doth perish.
When I have sacrificed my angel-soul,
I shall become what no mind e'er conceived.
Oh, let me not exist! for Non-existence
Proclaims in organ tones,
'To Him we shall return."

Yesterday at Pantai Seri Kenangan

2008-06-21T00:53:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, went to Pantai Tutong just to wander off on a boring afternoon. Noticed that it was about to rain offshore. The weather was fine inland. The remarkable features that god has created fascinates me. Appreaciating its beauty and uniqueness, i spend some time to witness the panorama. Luckily, i brought my camera with me.

After few minutes, the panorama changes.....

I didn't regret going out yesterday because god granted me a gift - that is witnessing this fascinating creation.

Off tu Temburong's Ulu-Ulu Resort

2008-05-20T16:38:00.000-07:00

My life has been pretty hectic with work schedule, it has always been. Juggling 2 jobs at a time, i usually finish everything at 8.30 pm. The other remaining hours is sleep, wake up, breakfast, and work again. This routine of mine is almost boring.

So i decided to take 4 days off and booked a package for 2 at Ulu-Ulu Resort, Temburong National Park. Check out this site http://www.uluuluresort.com. This is actually something good for tourism. A 3 star resort in a middle of Temburong's thick jungle is a treat for nature lovers and tourist alike.

I'm going this afternoon and hope to shoot some photos.

The Look

2008-05-17T05:03:00.000-07:00

The look on the face of my favorite nephew is priceless, especially when he is happy. I love this kid. If i were to have my own, i want him/her to be equally intelligent and talented as him.

Can you believe this kid.. at 2 years old he was able to sing perfectly. Now he is 4 years old. I guess that's how the malay saying goes 'kemana tumpahnya kuah kalau tidak kenasi'. I just simply have to snap his look.

second photo of Syahmi by yours truly

My mother - my hero

2008-05-11T07:40:00.000-07:00

Today is the mother's day.
I have always loved my mother, though sometimes i can be a stubborn daughter. She has endure many years of pain and sufferings but yet she still able to smile with grace and confidence because she is such a strong woman.

My mother has made me who i am today. It was she who fought through the hard times. Bringing me to this world, educate me with her charm and wisdom. She was able to juggle the task both at work and being a mother. She never neglected us and was always behind us every step of the way.

Dear mom, maybe i couldn't say these things in front of you but i want you to know that i thanked you for bringing me into this world. I promise to make you a happy woman as you have made me a happy daughter, until now.

You have always been my inspiration.

You ...... my mother is my hero.
Happy Mother's day to my mom, Hjh Azizah binti Haji Hassan.

image taken from www.socpa.com

Landscape-Scenery

2008-05-03T03:53:00.000-07:00

This one is not mine but i just love the scenery. I just have to put it here

Time to upload the photos

2008-04-29T05:31:00.000-07:00

I love taking photos. Although i really don't have the time to learn more on photography, but i always have passion in them. Maybe one day if i'm free, i will try to learn. However, these are some of the them, taken by an amateur and yours truly..

Wasai Mentiri

2008-04-29T05:20:00.001-07:00

hmm... a few days ago, Number 12 and me decided to take a break (since it's sunday) and we went to Wasai Mentiri. The weather was fine, and one nice family seem to be enjoying their picnic there. I guess maybe we should take a break once in a while. Luckily i brought my small camera with me ..

At Nad's 21st Birthday celebration - a modest affair

2008-04-07T04:57:00.000-07:00

Nad's decided to celebrate her 21st birthday in style!! Yes, she did. She didn't hold a wild party nor was there a quite family dinner like we usually have every once a month at OGH. But it was a simple one, at a buffet restaurant in Kiulap. It was quite a modest affair as none of her boyfriends were invited ( i guess to avoid those guys making a scene). Nevetheless, the food was great. God i love the sambal pedas!! and the waitress were lovely too.

Nad's got the birthday celebration she wanted - a familly gathering.

At 21, Nads (in the picture, standing 2nd from right) still pursue her higher education at one of the colleges in Gadong as well as doing part time modelling. She's quite a babe, being one of the models at Alan's. We all hope she will always be blessed by Allah the Almighty, all the best in what ever she excels at.

"Happy 21st Birthday Nadeya"

Curiosity killed the cat

2008-04-02T05:11:00.000-07:00

Well.. well.. well as they say, curiosity kill the cat. Why do people always have to ask how is she like? How does her house look like, issit lawa? Is she bossy? How come she's fat now? Not so hot anymore ay? ... hahahaha

These questions just made me want to laughs my head off.

Married to someone who is a somebody, ya know... i mean one need not look like THE posh spice.. haha i mean really, the most important thing is being able to let go of yourself, and just be happy. No one you need to impress anymore hehe (as if i ever have to) Come on man...
and the nerve of some people ah i mean lemme just explain it one more time. I am happy as it is now. You may not like nor expect me to be this way but just accept it as it is. No more Miss-wild-night-life-young-free-single attitude again. You may not believe it but i've changed.

But anyhow, i love the change. Sometimes i think, so this is how it feels to be tua hahaa.. i mean im not that old but 32 is not that young either hehe.. seriously, i feel at peace with my current situation. A sip of hot nescafe and a hot shower after a hard days work is actually relaxing and peaceful. Being a food lover now, enjoying my favorite recipe while watching my fav. tv show is just nice, you know.. especially since you have a husband who's always there for you. What more would i ask for?

Nah.... forget the old golden days. At home is where i should be.

Cerita Hantu

2008-03-31T03:58:00.000-07:00

Yeah.. call me old fashion tapi aku andang suka horror movies. Number 12 sometimes think im some sort of lunatic on this type of genre tapi antah ah i grew up loving this type of movies. I dig it a lot! Aside from Robert De Niro and few others movie legends, i kinda have this addiction to scary stuffs, you know just to relax and chill

hehe... i remember i used to lied arah my Number 12, telling him that the movie we about to see di wayang is not a horror movie when instead, its dead haunting for him!! hahaha... he hated me but i love him for that. Here are two recent films yang kuliat tapi not scary enough to frighten me... crap...

The Anniversary

2008-03-26T00:19:00.000-07:00

25th March yes it was our anniversary last night and i just had to surprise him. 7 pm went over to the saloon for that 'special look'. Just to look different for Him, well at least it was worth it. He came back from his football sessions to pick me up at 9 for dinner. It was an OK dinner at a casual japanese restaurant in Kiulap although i actually wanted to celebrate at Pantai restaurant. So it had been 3 years already!!! wow... lets hope nuthing changes. Days gone by without never has to fear the future. We are meant for each other i hope ....

Behold thy lyrics for thee hehehe

2008-03-14T04:54:00.000-07:00

I pasted this lyrics as i was doing numbers of songs with karaoke back at home with Number 12. Yea you can call me being vain but the lyrics has some truth in it (at certain extent) haha
Walupun jiwaku tetap terluka
Hingga nyaris bunuh diri
Wanita mana yang sanggup hidup sendiri
Di dunia ini
Walaupun telah kututup mata hati
Begitupun telingakuNamun bila dikala cinta memanggilmu
Dengarlah iniWalaupun dirimu tak bersayap
Ku akan percayaKau mampu terbang bawa diriku
Tanpa takut dan ragu
Walaupun mulutku pernah bersumpah
Tak sudi lagi jatuh cinta
Wanita seperti diriku pun ternyata
Mudah menyerahWalaupun kau bukan titisan dewa
Ku takkan kecewa
Karena kau jadikan ku sang dewi
Dalam taman surgawi
Walaupun dirimu tak bersayapKu akan percaya
Kau mampu terbang bawa diriku
Tanpa takut dan raguWalaupun kau bukan titisan dewaKu takkan kecewa
Karena kau jadikan ku sang dewi
Dalam taman surgawi

Oh yea... the song is entitled SANG DEWI hehehe

Almost 3 years now

2008-03-05T03:56:00.000-08:00

It's almost 8pm and its 5th March now. A few more days i'll be celebrating my third wedding anniversary with my other half. Im still planning for a special surprise for him. But not quite sure if its appropriate. Coming to 3 years now and i must at lease congratulate myself and him for that. We are both 2 different people but still we can manage. A long winding road but that is what marriage is all about. Not just because of love, but also responsibility and few other aspects that we must acquire in ourselves. We are afterall, humans. Hmmm... perhaps a dinner .... yes a dinner, a river cruise whilst having dinner can be romantic. Must book first, though.

After a Long Time

2008-02-19T17:22:00.000-08:00

It's been a while since i didn't write in this blog. I've been too much preoccupied with work and life. Having 2 work at a time is not making you less busier hehe... My usual routine is waking up at 6 am, simple breakfast then 7 o'clock leave for work. At work i usually began my day by reading newspaper before checking the mail and then start doing my work. 12 noon i'll be on my way home where my amah will usually prepare a heavy lunch before i leave again at 1.30 for work. I will be back at 4.30, take a bath and eat my dinner and then rest a while before leaving again at 6.30 pm for my night work.

Usually back at 8.30, i'll be lying on the couch watching television or DVD's or going online. Sometime i would go out for a movie, eat out or shopping (sometimes only though). Sometimes i feel like i live a boring life, occasionally i planned to go for a holiday in a remote place or rural areas... say like Belalong (in Temburong) perhaps, but i find it hard to find the time. Living in BSB itself is not helping either. Number 12 also find it hard to fit in with his ever busy schedule. He takes coaching dead serious hehehe.... oh well, i guess we need to get away sometimes.

Hari Raya - days of joys

2007-10-30T23:02:00.000-07:00

First Raya and we gather at my mom and dad's place. I starved myself because i knew the day will continue with eating lots of foods from the open houses. Ofcourse first on the list would be my grandma's house at Jalan Ban 4 and all my uncles who resides at the four houses along Jalan Ban 4. I managed to get a few shots of my happy mum and some of my faboulous sisters whilst my favorite nephew continued his activities of funs and laughters - the bedils and bunga api. Number 12 just leads him on. But i loved it that the day ends with happiness and cheers. Yay!!

S3am4T H4r RaY4 AdLftR to all!!!

One of My sister

On The Eve of Hari Raya

2007-10-29T23:51:00.000-07:00

It's 12th of October and its the eve of Hari Raya। Most people will gather tonight with their families. Nothing can beat Raya celebration at the kampong. Yes, 'Balik Kampong' and celebrate the raya eve is meaningful to most bruneian families. Since i am living at the heart of Bandar, spending time with the whole family 'balik kampong' is one of my top priority. Most of the time, i am pretty much preoccupied with work, work and work. I just couldn't wait to gather with my family. 7 pm and my other siblings had arrived earlier and i can hear my favorite nephew asking on the phone if i will play 'bunga api' with him.

Number 12 was already prepared with his boxes of 'badils'। In the car on my way home to kampong, many times i could see fireworks litting the sky and the sound of firecrackers, making me more eager to reach the destination which i love most। Yes, its the place where i was born। I managed to capture some photos. I would feel so empty if i was alone that night. That night, mom and dad were busy preparing the house and kueh raya.

Remembering Our Loved Ones (Al-Fatihah)

2007-10-09T06:05:00.000-07:00

Every Ramadhan or Ist of Syawal Muslims in the country visits the cemetary to pay respect to the loved ones. It has became a malay culture and this tradition has became one of the most important characteristics of being a malay bruneian. I have always thought it as something special and i once vowed to teach my young ones (in the future) to remember it as a practise, to always remind ourselves who we are and what the future holds.

Al Fatihah to our beloved ones, our prayers help them in the after life. Surah Yaasin, Surah An-Naas, Surah Al-Falak and Surah Al-Ikhlas to all our beloved ones. Do remember that while Syawal is approaching, we must always remember those who are gone, who took care of us while we were young. It is our responsibility to repay them by at least by uttering prayer to Allah, May Allah blessed us all.

Photo shows a woman reading Quranic Verses for her late grandfather.

The Smoke at Kg Ayer & The Fish Agratin

2007-10-01T18:24:00.000-07:00

De Royalle Cafe asks me to sample their newly introduced menu, the special Fish Agratin. No rice, just fish with vegetables, cheese among other ingredients but i can say that it is very delicious. I do like a free meal and this menu is a great treat. Thanks De Royalle!

Number 12 caught me after Sungkai giving this photo of smoke during a fire yesterday at Mukim Peramu that ravaged a house just about 2 weeks before Raya. Number 12 demanded that there was something in a smoke which look like a face and he told me that he didn't realize about it until he and his friends were chatting at the cafe. They were surprised and some were freaked out. He also show me the second photo which i will upload later and 'the face' was also there at a different angle.

Awaiting Ramadhan

2007-09-10T18:36:00.000-07:00

I am counting the hours. I don't know but i really love the idea that Ramadhan is approaching. I have always felt that this time of year is where anyone can be at peace and spent more time to get closer with family.

First day of Ramadhan as promised, i will be having sungkai gathering with the whole family. I've told the maid at my parent's home last week to prepare the 'big table' (the one we use for our family gathering only). My sister will be bringing her list of delicacies and we will bring our specialty. My mom cookings are my all time favourite.

Its been a while since we last ate our dinner together.

Massages,Mooncakes and Mr. Corleone

2007-09-07T03:37:00.000-07:00

Its a few more days before Ramadhan and i am already getting into the mood.

But not yet.... not just yet.

Not before i had a chance to relax and indulge in the traditional Thai massage with my confidante last night. After two hours, we felt lighter (not that im getting thinner or anything hehe).

And guess what? Yesterday i just read that they are promoting speacially baked moon cakes at the Empire. I must go buy some later.

What more can I ask.... than to relax, eat my favourite snack and watching my precious movie collection of my favourite actor - and yea....... it's De Niro!!!

...... and tonight is Casino.

Slow Wednesday

2007-09-04T18:38:00.001-07:00

Almost everything are a bit slow today so i decided to navigate few things.

Parenting is an art and a skill that needs a person to acquire certain abilities. I have always admired them because i think being a parent requires a lot of guts. Patience, determination, perseverence and other qualities are of the utmost importance. So i am pasting something which i find useful to parents and guardians alike.

Text below are taken from http://www.childparenting.about.com

Why Children Tell Lies - And How to Stop Them
From Karen Bilich for americanbaby.com

Find out what causes your child's lying problem and how to stop it.
Children under age 6 often tell tales and have difficulty distinguishing between reality and fantasy. Telling tall tales is entirely different from lying. This usually is just an expression of your child's imagination at work, and does no harm to anyone.

Tall tales become more harmful when your child reaches age 6 and you--or your child--can no longer distinguish truth from fantasy. At this point, your child might have a problem. Find out what may be causing your child's lying and how to end it.

The Causes

A child's lying may be the result of numerous factors. These can include:

Fear of disappointing a parent
Avoiding punishment
Seeking attention
Crying out for help
Avoiding stressful situations
Imitating the behavior of the adults around him

Read more on http://www.childparenting.about.com

That Means Being Me

2007-09-03T21:05:00.000-07:00

Being Dewy means.... being blunt, stressful at times but being a person who see the world in different perspective now that things change for a reason.

Being Dewy means..... being selfish and generous at the same time.

But then again.. why do i need to explain myself?

No one needs to understand.

By the way, the photo i uploaded is not associated with me. It's taken by my friend/colleague. He's cool. I mean in a way that he's good at shooting photos and with video editing. Im not surprised he's always getting all booked on weekends with all the orang kawins and other functions. Dear pal, "Jangan tah bekiha!".... hehe